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I am "The Full Monty"- Vibrant, Educated, Articulate, Twisted.
Absinthe Drinker, Diverse and Sensual,.
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Lover of Life, Trying To Keep The Flow, On a Journey unknown. Won’t you Join Me?
 
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Tuesday, September 18, 2007 A question was posed the other day from a friend that I never really have given much thought too...... "Do you believe in Soul Mates?" When I sat back and thought about it, I had to send her a message to inform her that I needed some time to process it. When I say process it- that means I had to really research not only my experiences, but also that so called definition and terms of the words- Soul, Mates- and then how those words would be applicable to the meaning of the word Soulmate. After a week of processing this- I came to my own personal conclusion. A Soulmate would basically imply that another person shares in your beliefs and other things which raise the compatibility factor beyond your expectations.....There have been maybe perhaps 2 of those times I may have felt that level of compatibility and yet when I considered the demise of the relationships, I found that expectations are raised too high of one another. So much so that when the persons of that relationship fails in an area- we lose sight of how to recover. I do not believe in the terms or aspects of Soul Mates. It sets up the idea or the so called pretense of a dream entitled: Perfection..and yet we are not perfect at all.....Would it be nice to have? Perhaps..I only say perhaps because I would not want things to be perfect...That means you have to work ever so hard to keep it perfect, which adds additional weight of expectations- and a sense of falseness of who you are as a person..... Ummmmmmm....your thoughts? callie |
