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I am "The Full Monty"- Vibrant, Educated, Articulate, Twisted. Absinthe Drinker, Diverse and Sensual,. World Travel Freak, Guiness Beer Drinker, Simplistic and Flirt! Lover of Life, Trying To Keep The Flow, On a Journey unknown. Won’t you Join Me?

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  • Friday, October 12, 2007

    To Sex or Not To Sex:

    That is the million dollar question peoples.... Okay..this is what happened and I must say- I am totally at a loss....... Someone that I used to date, came into town and asked me out for dinner in which I got dolled up and went...... We had a great time....He apologized for some things that hurt me, and I accepted his apology... At the end of the evening, he asked me if I would re-consider dating him..... I told him very politely, I would re-consider it but alot has changed about me- and one of those things was that I did not wish to be intimately *sexually* involved with anyone anymore until marriage was on the horizon... He basically and honestly said- Ok...that won't happen here sorry to have invited you out for dinner. We split the bill, I went my way and he went his....Now- I appreciate the honesty factor...truly...However I was in all honesty as a woman- left with the receipt basically stating in my mind :

    You are so not worth my time, unless your putting out...

    I asked a few other guys here at work their opinions, and they felt the same way in regards to dating.... They would not date a woman unless she was putting out....One even went so far as to say- he goes by a basic step- point system... If a few points out of a number set by him does not mesh with his ideas *with sex being number 1*- then he would not continue dating that woman.... and I look at this and I am like...Ok.....so....basically...If a guy wants to date a woman- she needs to put out to prove she is worthy?.....If she doesn't make the criteria in other categories but puts out and you would still date her because of that but it won't go any further- because you don't like the other attributes, but sleeping with her cures the temporary fix ??? I am freakin at a confusing loss.....

    And then..Some men wonder why women are they way they are with issues regarding themselves...duh.......Look at the male models we have laid in front of us..We are basically being told through so many advertisements and things of that nature in order for us to be who we are that we have to sell ourselves out... Funk that...I am no sell out.... So- MEN....what is your opinion????

    And don't be shy- I will hunt you down like the cat I am....*winks